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Scams That Target Recent Widows & Widowers

Published October 2026 · Last verified October 2026

The Shapes a Scam TakesA loss becomes public, and a handful of the same tricks follow. Here are the ones to know.A scam aimed at youThe debt phone callA fake delivery feeFuneral-fee demandA new online friendIllustration — a schematic. Set-up screens differ; each takes only a few minutes.
A schematic overview — your set-up screens may look a little different, but the idea is the same.
Four Calm Moves, Every TimeWhatever the caller says, the same four steps keep you safe. Do them in order.StopDon't payor promiseHang upEnd the callcalmlyVerifyCall a numberyou trustReportFTC & police,keep notesIllustration — a schematic. The order is a suggestion; do one box at a time.A schematic of the plan — company steps vary; the order does not have to.
The plan as a short checklist you can work through a little at a time.

After a loss, a handful of predictable scams tend to appear — the fake debt call, the delivery fee, the funeral impersonator, the too-friendly stranger online. This guide shows you exactly how each one works, so you can spot it and hang up with confidence.

Bill Davis
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After a loss, a handful of predictable scams tend to appear — the fake debt call, the delivery fee, the funeral impersonator, the too-friendly stranger online. This guide shows you exactly how each one works, so you can spot it and hang up with confidence.

What's inside this guide

The printable PDF walks through 37 short chapters, in plain language. It also includes an everyday cheat sheet and at-a-glance pictures.

  1. The Whole Plan on One Page
  2. What This Guide Covers
  3. Why the Newly Bereaved Are Targeted
  4. How Common This Really Is
  5. The Obituary 'Debt' Phone Call
  6. How the Debt Call Plays Out
  7. The Delivery That Demands a Fee
  8. Someone Posing as the Funeral Home
  9. Why Gift Cards, Wire, and Zelle Give It Away
  10. Romance and Grief Approaches Online
  11. How a Grief-Romance Approach Unfolds
  12. When a Caller Rushes You
  13. When a Caller Wants It Kept Quiet
  14. When the Payment Method Is Strange
  15. Hang Up and Call Back on a Trusted Number
  16. How to Verify Someone Independently
  17. Checking a Funeral Home or a Debt
  18. Why Caller ID Cannot Be Trusted
  19. Scam Text Messages After a Loss
  20. Scam Emails After a Loss
  21. Fake Charity and Memorial Donations
  22. Fake 'Unclaimed Benefits' and Insurance Calls
  23. What Scammers Sound Like
  24. Keep the Obituary Short
  25. Protecting Your Phone Number and Email
  26. If You Already Paid — Act Right Away
  27. Reporting to the FTC
  28. Reporting to Police and the State
  29. A Word on Freezing Your Credit
  30. Helping a Grieving Relative Stay Safe
  31. Setting Up a Check-In Person
  32. A Simple Weekly Safety Habit
  33. Scams That Come to the Door
  34. Common Worries, Answered
  35. Planning Together, Before a Loss
  36. If You Only Do Three Things
  37. Finish the Job Soon

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Last verified October 2026. Information accurate as of October 25, 2026.

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