Memorializing or Deleting a Facebook Account, Step by Step
Published October 2026 · Last verified October 2026
When someone passes away, their Facebook account does not simply vanish. This guide walks you, calmly and in plain words, through memorializing an account as a tribute, deleting it for good, setting a legacy contact in advance, and keeping the page safe from scams.
When someone passes away, their Facebook account does not simply vanish. This guide walks you, calmly and in plain words, through memorializing an account as a tribute, deleting it for good, setting a legacy contact in advance, and keeping the page safe from scams.
What's inside this guide
The printable PDF walks through 36 short chapters, in plain language. It also includes an everyday cheat sheet and at-a-glance pictures.
- The Whole Plan on One Page
- What 'Memorializing' Really Means
- What a Memorialized Profile Is Not
- How to Decide Between the Two
- Why an Untended Account Can Cause Harm
- Who Is Allowed to Make Each Request
- What a Legacy Contact Is
- Setting a Legacy Contact, Step by Step
- What a Legacy Contact Can Do
- What a Legacy Contact Cannot Do
- Picking the Right Legacy Contact
- Gathering Proof for a Memorialization Request
- Submitting the Memorialization Request
- Obituary or Death Certificate — Which to Use
- What Changes Once It Is Memorialized
- Who Can See the Old Posts Now
- Caring for a Memorialized Profile
- Pinning a Message to the Top
- Friend Requests and the Profile Photo
- Requesting Deletion — Who Can and What You Need
- Submitting a Deletion Request
- The Emotional Side of Deciding
- Reporting a Hacked Account
- Reporting a Fake or Duplicate Profile
- What Happens to Messenger and Messages
- Saving Photos Before Anything Changes
- Privacy Settings Worth a Look
- Scams That Target the Grieving
- Protecting Your Own Account Today
- Doing This Together as a Couple
- Common Worries, Answered — Part One
- Common Worries, Answered — Part Two
- When You Cannot Easily Prove the Relationship
- What to Expect While You Wait
- If You Only Do Three Things
- Finish the Job Soon
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Last verified October 2026. Information accurate as of October 25, 2026.
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