Emergency Access —
Letting a Trusted Person In
Published October 2026 · Last verified October 2026
None of us likes to think about it, but it's a gift to the people we love: if something happens to you, can a trusted person reach the accounts, photos, and records they'll need? There are calm, built-in ways to set this up — platform tools from Apple and Google, your password manager, and a simple sealed envelope — plus a few legal notes worth knowing. Here's how to plan it, gently.
None of us likes to think about it, but it's a gift to the people we love: if something happens to you, can a trusted person reach the accounts, photos, and records they'll need? There are calm, built-in ways to set this up — platform tools from Apple and Google, your password manager, and a simple sealed envelope — plus a few legal notes worth knowing. Here's how to plan it, gently.
What's inside this guide
The printable PDF walks through 26 short chapters, in plain language. It also includes an everyday cheat sheet, a plain-English word list and at-a-glance pictures.
- A gift to the people you love
- What we're really planning for
- How this differs from everyday sharing
- Apple's Legacy Contact
- That Keychain gap, and why it matters
- Google's Inactive Account Manager
- Password-manager emergency access
- Bitwarden's timer-based emergency access
- 1Password's Emergency Kit
- Other managers, same idea
- The sealed-envelope approach
- Choosing your trusted person
- The legal picture, in plain terms
- Fitting this into estate planning
- A note on the password, legally
- Don't forget the devices themselves
- Layering for a plan that really holds
- Keeping the plan current
- Talking to your family about it
- Avoiding scams around this planning
- If you're helping a parent set this up
- What your trusted person will actually do
- Deciding what should happen to each account
- A simple plan you can start today
- Putting it all together
- Frequently asked questions
Get the printable guide
Everything above is a quick summary. The full, printable guide — the same words, laid out to read and keep by the computer — is a free PDF.
Last verified October 2026. Information accurate as of October 25, 2026.
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